I’ve been a little stressed about writing a new post here. But I’ve been determined to NOT write unless I’m feeling INSPIRED to write. Writing just to write will do neither of us good.
And then this morning as I was typing a message on good ol Facebook – it hit me! I got it, and I had to share here on my blog with YOU.
I wish I was more like…
I’m too busy…
I don’t know…
What would people say…
I don’t have the money…
BUT as I kept going I was starting to -gasp- doubt myself! And I started getting those exact thoughts in my head… And the one that hit the nail on its head was when I told myself “I just don’t know if I have what it takes!”
I was in it. The self-doubt had hit me – AGAIN.
Now how is it that I can be frustrated when others don’t believe in themselves, but it’s SO easy to talk smack to good ol Lina..?
And I didn’t think twice about it…
Well, until I did start thinking about it twice I guess… 🙂
Did that speak to you a much as it did for me..?
Let me tell you WHY it spoke to me. Because on Monday mornings so many of us wake up excited about a new week because THIS week will be different! This week YOU will do things differently, and eat healthy, and work out every single day, and not eat any desserts, and build a business and yada yada yada.
But the same Monday at 11.30 am you think to yourself. Screw it.
I just can’t do this shit.
I don’t have what they have.
I ate a donut and now my whole week is ruined.
I’ve googled words I should know how to write… (Yes, I just added this one because that’s how I felt how to spell…)
(insert your LAME a$$ excuse here.)
And then you’ll do it again all over next week.
Just give yourself a freaking break from starting OVER.
JUST KEEP GOING.
Screw up and the keep on going. I dare you. Because You will make mistakes, Over and Over. And it will be messy and ugly and sweaty and you’ll probably have tears rolling down your cheeks more than enough.
It’s a part of reaching your big scary goal.
It’s a part of life.
But dammit, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF and LOVE YOURSELF to get uncomfortable.
You CAN become your own die-hard fan. And YOU CAN believe in yourself and go after your dreams.
And don’t we have enough ‘sagging things’ to deal with..?
Do we really need to deal with a saggy marshmallow on our backs too..?
So let’s imagine ourselves EATING that big fat delicious marshmallow – after we roast it on a fire —> guilt free!
Give yourself a break.
Don’t give your doubts all that credit…
Believe in yourself.
Give your worries to the universe and manifest what it is YOU truly desire.
Grab a sticky note, write ” I am my own die-hard fan and I don’t let self-doubt crawl all over me. ” and SLAP that baby on the fridge for you to see everyday!
You got this. You are amazing. You CAN do hard things. You can KEEP going, and you don’t have to start over next week. You are a bad ass.
ps. If you haven’t read you are a bad ass. You should. It’s the bomb dot com. ❤